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Hi There,

Welcome to my website. A digital space where I document my mind and lifestyle. Hope you have a nice stay!

Peace, Love and Laughter,

Rita Pearl X

#DearMe

#DearMe

Youtube launched a campaign in honor of International Women's Day, inviting people to answer the question, "What advice would you give your younger self?"

Dear me, 

the little things you spend hours thinking about and beating yourself up for are not worth the time and energy.

people don't judge you as much as they judge themselves and same goes to how much you care about what they think. don't let others stop you from being you. doesn't matter how silly, funny, crazy or just shy and awkward. The embarrassing moments have no power over you unless you give it to them.

 Instead, laugh it off and walk away knowing you're not alone in this. One day, when you truly love yourself for simply who you are, you will regret not showing others the beautiful soul you got inside. 

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Stop thinking too much and know that you can do anything that you want if you just try. One day, you will most likely regret not doing it than actually doing something. one day, you will regret not joining that group you wanted to, not going to the event you loved to, not joining that reading club because you thought you were not capable of to....all

 for what? scared? fear, huh? No, it was all in your head. time flies so fast....

If You are in your last two years of high school and you don't know what you want to study then do researches, know your interest, take career choice quiz, ask questions and if you still don't know after all that, don't worry just don't lose that desire to be something start with something that speaks out the kind of person you are and you will find your way one day. 

Take care of yourself and love it. you will have to deal with it for the rest of your life and it gets tougher as you get older so learn to love it and be kind to yourself from the very beginning where you are still depended on your parents and you don't have to think too much about your future as much as studying for that one test and what to wear. 

stop wasting time wishing you were someone else there are better things need to be done. you are you for a reason, your hear, your face, your eyes, your heart, your tears, your laugh,  and your smile these are all yours and yours alone before they are someone else's, love them.

we've heard it over and over again that no one is perfect yet, you still want to be perfect not realizing that you just need to change your thoughts and the way you see things and act on them. 

what makes you think someone is perfect? well, you fall in love with them that everything about them becomes perfect in your eyes. you don't mind judging yourself and others  but you forget to love it as much as you love others when you really love yourself, you start perfecting it and be at peace with it.

your thoughts control your body and how you act and react. if your thoughts are positive and at peace with who you are you become the person you wished you were..... if they are negative then you will always look at the bad side that we all tend to look at....don't look outside and wish for it  just look inside and become it once you love yourself, loving others becomes easy and loving you becomes easy for others.

when you're happy with who you are and satisfied with it, no matter how many flaws you know you have, you start seeing the world better and the world sees you better too.

Your friends' list will get shorter,but it can also get tighter if you make the time for it. Remember, true friends are rare and that one friend you don't talk to all the time, but when you do it feels like yesterday you saw each other is the one who's friendship you cherish forever.

True friends are like yourself, you don't feel any different talking to them or talking to yourself. 

lastly, hang on there, everything will hopefully and most likely be much clearer and better as

 you get older and find out everything yourself because no matter what i say or do, you have to see everything through.

you have to go through it all and make your own mistakes to get the big picture that is life. 

and when you do, it's never too late to live, but learn fast and look around for other's lessons and mistakes because the sooner you get it the better life you make out of it. 

Pearl x

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