diplomacy & positive mindset
Being diplomatic and having positive mindset are, in my opinion, two of the most great, yet important qualities anyone can have.
When I share my thoughts and feelings, it's never to be agreed or disagreed on. I don't share them thinking that I'm always right or what I say or feel is the only way to go about it. the one thing that gets me to share is to let others who think or feel the same know that they're not alone. Sometimes we get so much inside our head that we almost believe that no one have ever thought this way or felt the same way that we do.
Yes, I'm aware that so many people out there have different believes than I do and it makes me angry sometimes, it's humanly impossible to not feel bad about it, but I also know that they were raised differently and have gone through situations that shaped the way they think and we are what we surround ourselves with. I truly believe that. however, it takes patience and courage to understand how the human mind work and how it should be treated. I don't attack others and say they are wrong, instead I make it clear that I get why they are what they are and make them feel accepted and then I can talk about my take on that thing or belief. I don't tell you, "you are wrong" I just simply tell you why I think, I'm right.
I don't like to judge others and neither should you, but there is a reason why we do it. we do it because we do it to ourselves first, and we know how it feels so we feel that we have the power to do it to others so we feel better about ourselves. Sure, there is constrictive criticism, but anything other than that is simply useless and waste of time and thoughts.
On the second note, I came to realize that the moments of negativity are the ones when we over analysis so much and don't look at how we can make this better, instead, we look at how it can get worse because when it comes to negativity, we forget one of the most important things we have as a human beings and that is willpower. Only positivity can open us to the power we have and how we should use it to our benefit instead of wasting it by going with the flaw and letting our circumstances have all the power. yes, sure, some people believe in destiny and fate, but we have a rule in each others' fate. Nothing happens in our life without the contribution from other human beings.
So, don't forget the power of your will and take actions if you don't like the way your life is going and remember, just because using diplomacy is the best way of dealing with human mind, it doesn't mean you can't make your voice heard and understood, but just not forced.